36F4ForT

I’ll try to make this brief but context is queen, and I don’t want to play games or lead anyone astray.

I’m a 36 yr old trans woman who just arrived in Rochester to make sure I have a safe space while the world sucks. The good news is Rochester awesome, but the bad news is my partner. She’s abusive, and I currently don’t have the resources to leave her and keep my kiddos so I’m biding time. So yes, I have kids but I’m not expecting anyone else to parent them, and yes I’m technically still married but I’m sorting that out (not making that your problem either) and I’m lonelier than ever.

If you read that and didn’t freak out, well then, hey there, friend. I’m an introverted cuddly book nerd who is also a forever DM and unable to kick the MtG habit. Also love WoW, a bunch of other single player games, and hiking. I’m on a quest to see as many waterfalls as possible in the area because I just saw my first waterfall this year. Also a novelist, poet, and English teacher.

I love long conversations, I take good care of my people and invest deeply in them, and I’m a sweet poet who will write you lovely things. I’m a bit of a submissive/bottom but after years with a shitty partner, I would need to feel safe to assume those roles again.

I’d love to talk, flirt, or meet up for something low stakes. Friends are great. Poly people are great. Friends with kissing is best. I doubt I’m ready for anything super serious anytime soon but I won’t close that door.

No cis men or conservatives bother messaging me, please. Not to be rude, but you’ll just get blocked and ignored so don’t waste your time.

I failed to make this brief.