Context 

I went up stairs and my mom and I had a conversation about repairing my car key tomorrow for my birthday. I had remembered she said that however I didn’t know what time. I went upstairs and we were talking about it and it got to a point where I was saying I didn’t wanna go to the place at 9:30am like she wanted to. After this she says “Alright then I’ll just save the 100$ and go to work instead”. I replied to this by yelling at her saying “It’s my fucking birthday, you can’t ever do anything.” Yes it was harsh, but It’s how I felt after compacted experiences. I go down stairs, come back up centered and try to talk to her normally, saying, in a calm tone “do you think it’s fair to say to me you’ll save $100, why won’t you try to find another day you could do it?” It goes on far from here however the jis is that all I wanted was for her to try and help me find another date we could do it. She talks in this video about me not “reaching out” however it’s because i’m 18, and now i’m finally going to college etc she has tried to do so much extra stuff and is extremely clingy, however if I don’t do things with her she gets sad, I apologize, cycle repeats. She tries to do nice things for me just I don’t know i need yall help please.



is this abuse? help pls