FWB cant orgasam normally.

So a guy i was sleeping with has a huge issue with orgasams, he simply cant orgasam normally. Idk why only thing that helps him is him being dominated and i grew tired of it. Like i dont want to have to step on someone, insult them, spit on them and choke them in order for them to orgasam 🙄

The problem is that cause of that we decided not to have sex anymore. However last time we met something almost sexual happened.. I am not huge into BDSM besides SOME desires that i am not that interested in realzing. So at the same time i like us being together, however i also dont want to have sex with someone like that pr without orgasam. He has been seeing therapist about it for a while now. However idk what should i do then, specialy in those cases where we are both horny.