AITA My twin did me so dirty

I will start this post out with saying, I am not being the Ahole. And first time poster.

My sister and I are both food delivery drivers. We do compete for the same orders. She has a regular job and makes ends meet with delivery. Right now, I do delivery full time. But really that makes no difference in how this went down!

Several days ago, we were sitting in her car and our Uber apps went off at the same time. The difference is, I looked at mine right away and pressed accept. My sister says, did you take it? I said, you bet I did, 2.5 miles for $29.

She looks me in my face while my app is matching and smiles. She says, let’s see who gets it? And the bleeping app gives it to her…. And she looks over at me at me and says, I can’t believe it gave it to me, and starts her car.

Yeah, you read that correctly!

I blew up. DID YOU JUST REALLY DO THAT?! YOU LITERALLY JUST STOLE THAT ORDER AFTER YOU ASKED ME IF I ACCEPTED IT AND I TOLD YOU HOW MUCH IT WAS!

She replies with a shoulder shrug and goes, I need the money too… My sister… My identical twin…

YOU JUST GOT FINISHED TELLING ME EVERY BILL THAT YOU JUST PAID WITH YOUR REGULAR PAYCHECK AND I DON’T EVEN HAVE RENT YET AND IT’S ALREADY LATE. I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU WOULD LOOK ME RIGHT IN THE EYE AND PRESS THE BUTTON. And I get out of her car slamming the door and her yelling, don’t slam my door. I also slammed my own car door when I got in.

And then the texting starts: copied straight from texts;

Her: (before she even makes it to the pickup) I don’t even have cig or gas money. You need to calm down

Me: enjoy your $29

Her: Get mad, it was wasted gas female dog ( and sends a picture of the closed business sign) It’s Saturday

Me: If you don’t see why it was wrong, I’m not explaining it

Her: I shouldn’t have to explain that I didn’t get to spend my last 3 paychecks because (insert explanation of where her money went)I have $2.76 to my name. You are NOT the only person struggling. I love you but I shouldn’t have had to explain

Me: That means nothing. It would mean something if I hadn’t said anything, and we both accepted at the same time, but that’s not the way it went down.

Her: Thats entitled, I need money too

Me: No, it was wrong of you to press it after you saw. I had already accepted it first.

Her: Didn’t Fing matter, the store is CLOSED

Me: That’s not the point. I deserve an apology

THAT WAS SATURDAY

She is included in a family text when I had to take my child to the ER last night. She calls me today, which is Wednesday; and tells me further details about something that’s going on with a child on her side of the fence and comments she’s glad my child got the situation straight.

When that had been concluded, I say, are you going to apologize for being a d bag? Mind you, this is the first time at all that I’ve called her a name and I didn’t even call her a name, I was describing the situation.

And she replies, neither one of us got the order so I have nothing to apologize for…

I HUNG UP…

Then a text and a reply…

Her: Regardless of whether you hit it, it could’ve matched somebody else and the restaurant was closed. I am not gonna apologize for entitled behavior. I love you but if that’s the way you wanna act that’s the way you got it

Me: You looked me right in the face and smiled after I told you how much it was and hit the button and said let’s see who gets it. I need an apology that’s it.

Me again: If you wanna be a narcissist and not realize that you owe me a real apology, you might as well be waiting for an AITA episode

She read that first part, hasn’t read the second…

Me: (posts a short, sweet video to TikTok)

In my real voice with my real face:

The sheer audacity Let me tell you I deserve an apology And until I get one I point to the Karma shirt I just happen to be wearing and continue saying… And until I get one I am withholding all of this awesomeness Hope you’re bored

slurs we’re edited so that I can post