I don't know what my goal is

I see many posters have goals. I guess some have had the chance to talk it over with their professional medical staff, some have always had some idea in mind, but I'm just in the "I don't know" catagory. I will be talking to my own Dr soon, but I'm wondering - how did the goals get settled for you?

My immediate goal was to break the 230 mark. I did that this past week. My next is to break the 220 mark. And I can continue doing it this way, but where do I stop? I don't know my bmi number exactly, but suspect it's high 30s to 40s.

My other goals include getting my lab work numbers under control (a1c, cholesterol, etc).

I want to say "a healthy weight" is my goal .... but I can't even imagine myself at that stage.