M19 F19 do i end things

Hi i guess im on here for honest advice one not from friends or anyone i know just a unbiased thoughts me and my girlfriend are 19M 19F and have been together for 5 months talking for like 5 but I just want to know what i should do. (Sorry if my grammar is bad i just want to type this all out) We are young and to be honest i dont know if i should break up with her. I feel like im not respected in the relationship like im only there if she needs me a person if she needs someone to take time. To me it feels like she prioritizes friends more then me and will not even spend time with me for them i ask to hangout its a flat no i ask to call she is doing hw or eating. It feels as if i put in effort for nothing back she never ask to hang out never ask to call never do anything less i ask she wont even hold my hand (we have dated for 4 months now) and would hold hands before it might be cause of summer time but still she feels more distant her excuses to not hangout with me is her friends she hasnt seen in a little. I feel less important then friends and her actions tell it to she will hit me if i poke her or anything she gets annoyed at me alot and just like anything. I give but dont recieve and she makes gifts for me like art and stuff or bracelets but it’s like i love it but why dont you act like you want me here. I don’t want to be mean to her as she has a difficult past but its like the relationship is s around her and yes I ASKED HER OUT I ASKED TO BE HER BOYFRIEND but that doesn’t mean i Don’t want to to be cared for too. She hates my friends especially the ones that are girls and side eyes them hard but i cant hate her friends but i cant be to friendly kid you not i was just talking to them and joking and after she says “now your all buddy buddy with my friends huh” like what YOUR not even liking mine and they are nice and respectful. To be fair i get like into my head ig u could say insecure cause like yeah and i see how she could to. In the beginning of the relationship there was another guy txting her gm and gn she responded and even called me HIS NAME and said it was a accident so i asked her to block him as i didn’t like it at all(did i ask for too much?) its just like wow and she tried to not till i was practically pleading i even say ill join clubs so we can spend more time tght but she says she would be with her friends like what do you want me to do. Ive given all i could what do i even do im thinking of ending things cause my friends say i could do better but its like she talks things out with me and stuff and i can usually tell her anything. But when she says sorry its just a “sorry” i feel like she doesnt rlly mean sorry yet she never accepts my apologies she basically walks all over me and i dont know anymore .

Posted Aug 14, 2025, 12:36 AM UTC

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