40 [m4f] #newyorkcity laugh a lot + get tossed around a lot

So after a few false starts on here I decided to take a slightly different approach that, in my head, seems unlikely to work but let’s be real this is an affair thread on Reddit and who really cares, right? I figure if I’m specific enough and get right to the point I have a better chance of weeding out all the weirdos and nut bags. No offense if you’re looking for a SD but I’m going to hard pass on that. Anyway, I’m 40, married and living in a dead bedroom situation. Not going to beat around the bush: I like rough sex and steady uncomplicated fun. I’m looking for one special lady who’s up for some laughs and getting absolutely manhandled when schedules align. I’m not into sexually transmitted diseases, so while I have zero intentions of trying to a be possessive weirdo, no multiples please. So if you sarcasm, have a filthy mouth , enjoy being tossed around, enjoy ridiculous opinions then I’m your guy.