36M pervert looking for enthusiastic outlet to shape and mold

Hello Perverts and Outlets!

To begin, apologies for the brand new and completely blank account. I just discovered this community today and knew immediately that I wanted to participate, but I also knew I wanted an account to dedicate to this and similar communities. I suppose we all have to start somewhere, right?

With that out of the way, here's my fantasy:

Ever since I was young (honestly for almost as long as I can remember) I've wanted a very specific kind of female partner. Someone fun, exciting and excitable, perky, chipper, passionate, enthusiastic, really just a happy, sparkling, youthful girl with a real joy and appreciation for life. The core of the fantasy though, is my relationship with her. In this relationship, I'm more mature, centered, grounded and realistic than she is. I balance her levity with my seriousness, her desire to play my sense of responsibility, her outgoing bubbliness with my more quiet introspection. She brings out my playful side and pushes me to not always be so serious when I'm being a grump, and I temper her natural impulsivity with my responsiveness and care. This fantasy isn't about control or domination. It's about completing and balancing one another.

I want to serve as a guide to this person too, though. I've always imagined that she was a bit naive, very trusting, and just generally had less life experience than I do. As such, it my job to protect her from those who would hurt her, to help her find and to guide her along her path, and to help keep her beautiful spark alive in a world that is all to often very dark. As such, there's a mentor/mentee aspect to this relationship too. I happily take on the responsibilities of teaching, guiding, and protecting her, and considerate my privilege to do so.

The subtext to what this relationship would look like in real life is, I hope, clear by this point. And that subtext is why this is a fantasy. In real life, such a relationship could never morally exist, because the power dynamic would by nature be skewed in my favor, and this girl could never truly be in a position to consent to any aspect of such a relationship. But among adults, between a Pervert and an Outlet, a healthy power dynamic can be achieved, and true consent can be established.

And that's why I'm here.

I'm looking for an Outlet who identifies with the girl I've described, and who desires that sort of guidance in her life, and who wants to engage in this shared fantasy with me. Someone fun, passionate, enthusiastic, and exciting who is looking for a sober and tempered but ultimately compassionate and loving partner. Someone who understands the nature of this fantasy and who agrees that such a relationship realkfe would be immoral and inappropriate, but is very interested in developing a safe and happy fantasy version of that relationship that is based on mutual trust, communication, honesty, and respect.

I'm open to chatting in DMs here or on Session, and I'll post my Session ID in the comments.

My heart is honestly fluttering at this point as I've never spelled out this very private fantasy in such a public forum before. It's exciting and liberating, and I really hope it speaks to someone here.

Best of luck to all Perverts and Outlets in finding what you're looking for, and I hope to talk to some of you soon!

To meet August's posting guidelines:

When I was freshly out of college I met a woman my age on a dating app. We clicked immediately, and quickly learned that we very much enjoyed spending time with one another. As we continued dating and things became serious we consciously decided to broach serious certain topics to decide if the relationship was worth pursuing long term. We either agreed or could compromise on most things, but we hit a snag when it came to children: she wanted them, I didn't, and neither of us was willing to compromise. Long story short, we mutually decided to end the relationship due to this incompatibility, moved on, and never saw each other again. She wasn't a "loved one" per se, but I had begun to develop strong feelings for her, and the entire situation was an early lesson in communication, compatibility, and compromise for me, and it felt like an appropriate story to tell for these purposes.