36 (F4M) #NYC #NY #LongIsland looking for casual but consistent fun and sparks

36 years old, brunette, 5’2, fit, married for 6+ years, in a dead bedroom/marriage situation. Looking for discreet, open, casual fun with no expectations of any long term but also zero game playing because who has time for that.

No kids myself but not a dealbreaker if you do. Ideally looking for anyone 35-45 in the same area with the means to travel who knows how to keep a secret, doesn’t play unnecessary games (esp in this particular situation) and loves excitement, good convos, food, wine, and great sex. I want something ongoing so no one night stands thanks. Also must love pets. DM so we can snap and maybe see if this goes anywhere. :)