38[M4F] Ny/Online - Slight seeker of attention searching for someone similar for something spectacular!

I'm just a mostly chill, mellow, cool kind of guy. People usually like to have me around, I like to keep things interesting, keep ourselves and our minds occupied and entertained for a while. Be engaging, be thoughtful, practice my words, sharpen my skills, learn or teach something new, be something you mighta never knew you needed. Things are usually a little better/different with a me around, let's find some new feels, some new habits, some new uses, use me til you use me up!

I'm in a longgterm relationship that has turned into a roomateship. I've been curious how I could go about being shared, enjoyed or used again, I was once realllly good at a few things. I'm a generous pleaser and an extrovert with no person to entertain or please! I've been living on autopilot for what seems like years. I got super invested in work, changing my position, making some life changes, and seem to have become disconnected with myself as well as the whacky world we find ourselves in. I'm not a fan of the now-times with the now-people in these times. I swear there is a widespread lead poisoning or something else making the masses of people less smart. Or is it all the tik-tak brainrot? I dunno, I never touched the stuff. I need to feel connected, the deeper the better. I'm looking to build and grow something rather ridiculous for ourselves. A place where we can go to get away from the real world and just enjoy some time together.

It's kind of like a relationship experience. Can we go from friends to something much more?

I'm quite a tricky one to describe, you can't really label me any one thing, and I'm not a big fan of labels they seem to limit things. I like being the jack of all trades, your go to good time guy. I seem to perform better at everything, while performing for someone. I don't get it, just sit back and enjoy it, perhaps fuel it a little. I'm kinda the master of moderation, I aim for a somewhat perfect balance between wholesome and not so much. Someone to celebrate with, even the smallest of victories, I want to be there, I want to care, I want to assist wherever I possibly can, I'm going to be your everything machine. I think I'm part German, they are kinda known for their precise engineering. I'm a perfectionist I'm going to be the best something for you! I'd love to show you how I get some things done.

I prefer a lady that is a parent, may have a few stories, likes or appreciates music, can feel, have imagination, not too serious, open minded, good commiunicator, someone entertaining and worthwhile to dig around, I know I sure can be! I'm in the eastern time zone, you can be within a few hours. Let's start as crushin' friends and see all the fun places we could possibly go! I'm a little bit smartsy, a little bit silly, I'm a no nonsense kind of guy but I'm totally full of it! I'm a bit more reserved as I get older, mostly modest, I like to be random, I like to be surprising, I can be kinda "out there", I like trippy cool and interesting looking things, I don't social media besides this. I will be one of the more interesting or fascinating people in your mobile phone. Let's be a random outlet for all of our random needs! I'm looking for all sorts of different attention but there is a time and a place, the good stuff takes some time. I work pretty easy in that you get what you give, be real get real, be clever get clever I feel you then I work how I'm supposed to.

Come say heyyy, introduce me to something or at least your wonderful self, ask some questions, see if you could possibly put a label on me, find a use or few for me, let's make little things mean much more. I'd love to show you how I could be your dreammmy dream man, could you be my, would you be my, dreammmy dream gal?!