41[M4F] Coloring outside the lines...

NSFWMale for Female

Hi. I'm a divorced 41 year old man splitting his time between Los Angeles and the East Coast, and I'm a bit bored. Maybe it's all the plastic superficial people in LA.

Either way, I made career choices that allowed a lot of free time over the years, and way back when Yahoo Chat, IRC, and AIM were the primary means of communication, I got very curious.

Over the past 20+ years while I've been a (mostly) well-behaved guy outwardly, very early on I started gathering stories, fantasies, experiences, and "wish I could" scenarios from women. I've heard, and seen, quite a bit, but that has caused a problem.

Now, in this modern era where everything is tied to social media, it seems people are afraid to really delve into things in depth as much. Women, regardless of age, seem to be either worried to express what they really are into, or even worse express outwardly how "wild" they think they are, only to find out that the only dirty thoughts they've ever had consist of what they've seen in basic mainstream porn.

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I deal in the things you shouldn't want, the ideas you wish you could live out but are afraid to admit to others, or even better the ones you're a bit scared of admitting to yourself.

I'd like to chat with someone who either has something in mind already, or is curious about what I've run into to see where they measure up.

I'm much more into finding someone who can keep my interest than a one-and-done scenario, but obviously it has to be the right fit, so to speak.

All I ask is you be who you say you are, are willing to have some conversation that is just normal conversation like two people getting to know each other, and that you either understand what I mean by the thrill of breaking the rules, or that you'd like to.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

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Posted Aug 14, 2025, 12:43 AM UTC · locked

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