r/exjw•
larchington

The Many Shades of ‘Personal Decision’ in Watchtower Teachings (Not an exhaustive list)

WT Policy

Jehovah's Witnesses make a “personal decision” not to accept blood transfusions (whole blood or any of the 4 main components).

How many JW do you know who accept blood transfusions?

Y

Although accepting a blood transfusion is a “personal decision” (which "you may need to explain- ie the default decision is you do not take the blood) Watchtower literature describes it as “unacceptable” and the Shepherd the Flock of God elders’ manual makes it clear that unrepentantly accepting blood means a JW disassociates themselves.

Consequence: shunning.

https://preview.redd.it/mwcy4s0o5tlf1.jpg?width=627&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3a27bf0168d9d73be59a03d121d4bf805a1d7ae2

https://preview.redd.it/se63hbmo5tlf1.jpg?width=900&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c61ab1b71d8626c1f01cef99e6256c9a6f23be3f

There is no appeals process for disassocation.

https://preview.redd.it/95kivlj26tlf1.jpg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=95ea6823b44b5277edd7c6a664ca892999d4b7ed

JW make a "personal decision not to vote"

How many JW do you know who vote?

There is no mention of voting in Shepherd the Flock and no official punishment.

They do not vote even though there's no official punishment.

https://preview.redd.it/6dqsvam76tlf1.jpg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6203db3ef9e1dad896a9b1d328a34e7e366a5c24

Birth control and cremation are matters for "personal decision" for JW.

Most JW use contraceptives and have cremations.

They do because there's no stigma and no punishment.

https://preview.redd.it/c6in29vc6tlf1.jpg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6dc3816089bcea36f91d76704999401ad38e7813

https://preview.redd.it/9wvt2t2d6tlf1.jpg?width=900&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=202dae08f6f70cfffba2ab82a7b094135150a3c7

For decades JW who made a personal decision to go get "additional" or "higher" education would be judged and sometimes punished.

Most JW did not get "additional education" (university/college) because of this.

https://preview.redd.it/ucnmmigp6tlf1.jpg?width=570&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e07426650e37bf6af9ae22497494b08a3138e2d7

https://preview.redd.it/6r3sro1q6tlf1.jpg?width=533&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=06146c7d956e0f8c69f043cef03a12b2df20dd6a

https://preview.redd.it/ufak1bbq6tlf1.jpg?width=517&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ae12a0ae212c28059c2fbd937970f9ca5ffc60cf

https://preview.redd.it/5qw3pniq6tlf1.jpg?width=545&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=22f5f3efe4c2f312e08705ad18e468618e84ed78

The recent clarifying of the stance on"additional education" is that this "personal decision" should be without judgement.

Without punishment.

https://preview.redd.it/hfdecbnt6tlf1.jpg?width=849&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8faa26dffdb829841116f27e2f97cbf9a88426c9

So as these examples show:

"personal decision" in Watchtower-speak ranges from:

Incurring punishment (blood).

Carrying stigma (voting).

Carrying no stigma (contraception, cremation).

Previously judged/ incurring punishment but now not judged/ punished (higher education).

Another way of putting it, what sounds like freedom of choice in Watchtower language can mean:

Mandatory compliance with punishment

Social pressure and stigma

True freedom

Posted Aug 28, 2025, 7:11 PM UTC

8415
Loading comments…