Label help

Hey im new here, basically I've been questioning if im maybe somewhere on the ace spectrum but nowhere near sure of labels. Basically:

•I dont get any pleasure/liking from being orally pleasured •I enjoy satisfying my partner orally and frequently think about it during self-pleasure however dont pleasure myself while doing so •and I have a really strong urge to top my boyfriend but dont recieve pleasure from bottoming however still do.

(Just to add in we havent went the full length yet so our only experience is oral)

If anyone knows please help because ive got as much clue about labels as a blind horse does the colour of the sky. Thank you 💗