Where Can I Meet Established, Traditional, Cultured, Men who are into wellness?

I’m not sure how to better articulate this, but where are the cultured men who aren’t married and are attracted to women in LA? Those who are into reading, traveling, museums, ‘the arts’. Not hustling, trying to ‘make it’ in LA, but who are already living (& thriving) here? Ones that are into going to nice dinners or get togethers and not “going out” or partying. Dress well, balanced and into health and wellness.

Not being rude at all - this is a serious question and I’m really seeking some help here. The fun ones are available and may be attractive but are still playing around with various women it seems, and don’t have the good qualities of a long term partner of someone who wants to settle down. I guess it doesn’t help that I’m not on dating apps (for privacy concerns). I’m traditional, value modesty, and devout Christian so that narrows it down, but am open to people who have traditional values. But please tell me my options! I’m getting depressed and lonely.

I’m not a member of any private club, and I do enjoy going to concerts alone, but many who go alone are married/partnered. Am I supposed to just randomly go to galleries, 5 star hotel lounges, Erewhon/Whole Foods, and jazz clubs and hope & pray that someone talks to me? I don’t dress up cute to go hiking or do errands - do I need to? Is there another secret way I’m missing? There are woman who have them.

Do you have any serious tips/advice for me? I’m very serious about this as a woman seeking to settle down. To be honest, I’m losing heart as I truly want someone good for me, and I for him. Performing arts season is starting up again, so maybe I can make more of an effort.