AITAH for getting mad at my best friend

okay so me, 25M and M, 23F are currently roommates and “best friends”. i’m currently at a friends place staying over for the weekend with her. i’m a gay guy.

long story short, we were talking about how we became JUST friends, not even best friends and we were talking about a night at her exes place. She said and i quote “you were an acquaintance to me at that time” in front of a group of our friends.

She’s my roommate and has done some serious dark shit to me but my parents are like “forgive and forget” because that’s how i was raised so i tried to but i still hold some resentment towards her, but i digress.

My friends and i were talking about our first times and relationships and the works, when we got to M, i started interjecting because she was telling her own story wrong. she started fighting me on the story timelines (she had an awful memory but a “i’m always right” mindset) and then i pulled out pictures stating the real timeline (the one i was talking about).

As soon as i prove her wrong she says “at that time i didn’t even consider you a fried. i considered you an acquaintance.”. and the room goes silent. i just stare at her and i say “so after i saved you from people raping you, took care of you while drunk, lied to your parents and paid for the uber home the next morning after not sleeping an inch so you wouldn’t get raped by your “”boyfriend”” you thought of me as “just an acquaintance”???”

She doubled down and said “my way of making friendships is not the same as yours” to which i responded to “you’re being fucking rude, that’s really fucking rude for you to say.” and she god PISSED. stopped talking to me, basically ruined the get together because of her silence and whenever tired to talk to her she said nothing so we all went to bed and now i’m here in bed asking myself. am i the asshole?