40 (m4f) #NY #NJ looking to enjoy the spookiest parts of fall with somebody

I love horror movies and spooky things. My favorite is The Strangers then Scream.

I am 40 with a couple of kids. I am 5’8, a lean 140 with blonde hair and blue eyes. I am in the Hudson Valley and near northern NJ. Somebody within an hour would be ideal.

I want to talk daily (consistently, not necessarily constant) and meet up once a month. Saturday is my best day. Saturday is also the best day. I want to connect specifically on music and fitness. Those two things are important to me. Attraction matters but I like conversation, going out for a drink and enjoying nice weather. Lame I know. I want to be challenged in conversation, share musical tastes.

I have a college degree but I don’t use it anymore. I spend most my days outside and most mornings at the gym. The gym keeps me balanced with good mobility. I love music. All kinds. This week I have cycled between the MC5, The Offspring and Dispatch. Next week it could be drastically different.
My favorite movie is Empire Records. It rules.

You: 35-45, also a parent and somewhat local. Have passions of body, mind or spirit! Maybe a book you can’t put down, a new show you’re obsessed with. Be passionate. A sense of humor is so important I should have put it first. Inappropriate is better. Maybe you’re a coffee drinking, dessert lover who also has a passion for tacos.