Venting about a friend and communication problems they/we have.
So I've not been texting one of my guy friends regularly as I used to. Which is, whatever right? It doesn't bother me too much but if he ever wonders WHY I DON'T TRY it's because of his habit to literally give the stupidest replies to crap imaginable. Say he's not in the mood, I text him, he is just like "ok" to basically everything or just things I text him. So legit this is one reason i don't talk to him, and we're drifting because of lack of communication but I'm both afraid but also fed up. I'm so tempted to crash out on him and legit say this is why I don't text him in a harsher way. Stupid FRICKEN AGH.
Jeez I'm holding back alot in this text and when I talk to some people for many reasons. Mostly fear of extreme scenarios that likely won't happen but still.
I'm barely even trying to talk to him, I half want to. But I don't know it's worth the trouble anymore. Granted I don't talk to many but I'm trying to work on this. I'm holding by like a brick on hay bales I can't do this.
Posted Aug 31, 2025, 12:18 AM UTC