In the closet

My wife called me a f@ggot today.

We've been married for eight years and for the past two years her splitting, rage, and cruelty have only gotten worse. She's been talking to a 'counselor' - totally not suited to treat bpd and doing a workbook by D. FOX since her diagnosis switched from bipolar to borderline. The disrespect is really really weighing on me. I'm bisexual and didn't realize or nor except it until about 6 months ago. I haven't told her and she often complains I don't tell her stuff - gee - I wonder why 🙃

What else really gets me is yesterday she told me how she was texting a friend who said something harmless and ticked off my wife. The friend apologized and my wife says she politely informed her that they needed to stop texting because she was about to get nasty with her. I wish she had at least that much respect for me.