Caught my husband can you help me.

Hey all my name is Debra. I am 59 5”11 164 red hair. I caught my husband cheating again!! He claims it’s old video I found. So I told him I was going to share it. But here is were I need your help. I am looking for a dominant man or woman to hook up with my husband and that way I can finally catch him. Please help. Willing to cover any expenses.