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layl_a_

i turned 21 yesterday.

i’ve never felt so worthless and alone as i did yesterday. i want to say i’m not upset with the fact that virtually everyone i know forgot about my birthday or they sent a half-assed birthday wish, but that would be a lie. some people posted pictures but the one that hurt me the most was my closest friend not posting anything at all. tbh i’m not really big on birthday but it’s nice to know someone cares enough to post something about you😔 and yes i know people have alot of things going on but i don’t think it’s an excuse to do this bc no matter how busy i am i would always make time for the people i love on their special day. going above and beyond is really not worth it if i think about it because this really hurt my feelings. i need to know i’m not alone on this does anyone feel this way too?

Posted Aug 31, 2025, 12:25 AM UTC

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