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27 [M4F] #online Are you in my blind spot?

M4F Online

In my experience, adults tend to make connections with people they live near, people with similar careers, or people related to them.

On a planet of eight billion people, that leaves some pretty massive blind spots. I don't like the idea of there being whole swaths of the population who I'd never get to meet, simply because of mostly random circumstance.

At their worst, things like r4r can be a real mess, but at their best, I'd like to imagine they can help offset some of that compartmentalization. They're also far cheaper than moving to a foreign country and changing my career (and altering my DNA?).

So, if you're also interested in a low-cost solution to the ennui of loneliness on a crowded planet, feel free to send a message. To give you some shadow of an idea of who you're reaching out to: I work in STEM, I'll make more Seinfeld references than you can stand, I live in the US and am depressed by the current state of things, and I am very curious and will have many questions for you.

Posted Aug 31, 2025, 12:27 AM UTC · locked

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