Body Count List

I wanted to share with you guys something that worked very well for me recently. Caveat that I'm an n=1 (your mileage may vary) and my wife is cool as hell and largely supportive of this kink.

My wife had always told me her body count was 11. Mine is 26. After a recent conversation she let slip that she may have done a bad job in tracking her numbers, as she had a few encounters that were very unmemorable, and she put some time into really thinking it through. It turns out, her number is 15, and she made a list of them by the names she could remember. I did the same with mine, but took it one step further, adding considerable details, both on lead-up and the play by play of the sex itself, and how I rated the sex out of 10. It turned into a 6 page document which I sent her. If nothing else, it will be great to have this when I'm old and losing my memory!

She told me she enjoyed reading it but wasn't super interested about my past. I asked her if she would be willing to make a list similar to mine, and I think partly because of the work I put into it she put together her own list with details, which was super hot.

Give this a try!