Should I leave or stay?

Advice Needed

I’m (29F) so stressed with the guy that I’m dating (36M). I have anxiety and I know that I need to take accountability for it. Trust me, I’m going through therapy. But he never gave me emotional support. He would just think of it as “bad vibes” but he never tried to hear me out or even comfort me. Hindi ko naman gusto na ayusin niya ako, most of the time I just want some emotional support pero he would always take it against me.

Tapos ngayon he’s avoiding me kasi i’m always causing stress daw and nadadamay siya. Hindi ko naman siya inaaway, kapag nasstress ako minsan gusto ko lang ng lambing niya but he never listened. Tapos lately sobrang obvious that he is ignoring me na to the the point na he wouldn’t seen my message kahit yung text ko lang is “i miss you” or “i’m so stressed sa work”. For him, relapse na yun sa anxiety ko.

Di ko na alam gagawin kung kakapit pa or hindi na. I’m really trying my best to not spiral again pero I feel like he is the main reason why I do. Right now, I’m trying to put my energy nalang towards me hoping na mag detach nalang din ako eventually. Pero part of me still wants to make it work. Nasa point ako ngayon na hindi ko na sure if ako yung problem or siya.

Posted Sep 2, 2025, 3:22 PM UTC

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