40 [M4F] #Connecticut - Masculine for Feminine - Besties with Benefits

A genuine personal connection with a feminine person.

That's what I'm looking to establish before moving into physical intimacy. I'm not interested in a serious relationship although I do want to enjoy spending time with someone before, during, and after casual sex. Like, I want to put as much emphasis on the friends part as I do on the benefits part of FWB. Low pressure, lots of fun, positivity, respect, and communication. All without falling into any of the trappings that comes with a traditional romantic relationship. I guess this means that I want to be besties with benefits!

Hi, I'm Chase, and I'm a masculine black millennial from CT looking for a feminine person from CT, MA, or RI to be my in person bestie that I get to sleep with. I'm healthy, have my life together, and drink socially. I love to chat, a lot, no seriously a lot, and my hobbies are exercise, nature, reading, and hopefully you.

I'm attracted to charming feminine personalities foremost and only then do I start to desire the physical. This means that I like women [m4f], CIS and trans [m4t], part time or full time, and even femboys [m4m].

My red flag is that I'm in a marriage of convenience. Don't worry, my wife knows and encourages me to find my person, and we are in no way romantically involved with each other anymore. So I suppose that means I practice ethical non-monogamy and I know that's not everyone's cup of tea.

So, if you're still interested in me my advice to you is to lead with your charisma because if I like that about you I'll start chasing that bootie of yours on my own time.