How can women be hot and feminine in very masculine/grinding environments?

Kind of like that's the only thing they can do to survive.

I know there's nothing wrong with trying to work hard bc if it hits the jackpot and I have money then it's just like extra princessy vibes n luxury- guys love rich girls too.

BUT but at the moment I don't have advantage over girls who can have their careers and sit back n chill and be like fcking fulfilled n stuff- I don't really have ppl to rely on for that. It's basically me fighting for me.

But at the same time I don't want to miss out and I wanna find the side of me that can also be super hot/sexy or smth at the same damn time :)

What are things you think a girl could do anyways xx