(26F) How do I make fun friends that are into beauty/fashion but also like reading?

I don’t fit in with the nerdy girls, but I don’t fit in with the glam/party girls either. I love reading, deep conversations and have “nerdy” interests, but I also love dressing up, being hyper feminine, and going out dancing or do fancy dinners. It gives me an excuse to glam up🤫

On the surface, I attract these glam girls because I look like them and we share common interests in fashion, but once they get to know me, they find me “too weird”(I’m mildly autistic and talk a lot when I’m comfortable). With nerdy girls, I usually have much more common ground, but they often view me as too superficial or too extroverted.

I like going out and having a margarita as much as I like quiet nights in with a book😔 I like shopping sprees at the mall as much as I like

I just wanted to vent. This takes a toll on me cuz I’m home alone every single weekend and I want to have fun and be part of a girl group🥺