Aita for getting pissed at my "friend" being rude

So i (14) was playing a game with my friends ( 14 , 14 , 14 and 13) were playing this game . It was unhinged obviously , but then my friend ( who has physically abused and threatened me in the past , lied to one of my neurodivergent friends saying i said a comment i never said to stir a reaction for fun , and consistently judges my appearance (in game or out of game). This friend just randomly started attacking me especially in this game and she was making comments about my weight(she weighs more than me ) , my appearnce and especially my gender dysphoria and really annoyingly , my family. She made a comment abt my family that tbh seriously pissed me off making me obvs snap at her and say that what she said pmo . Tge comment was "at least i dont have family issues" .I've never even mentioned my family this girl properly and i dont have "family issues" . It appears as well that my friends found it all funny and i think they took her side too 🙄😭If yall knew her , the shade of this girl is so rude and annoying! So i want to know if others see if what she is doing is uncivil or am i in the wrong for my behavior