Someone please help me
For context, allow me to add that we have been dating for a year and a half. We broke up once before for 3 months, and found our way back to each other healthier and stronger. She also has been struggling with bpd and her antideppresant pills haven’t been working.
We hung out the friday before the most recent. We had a great time together, we watched some movies, we talked, we did some skin routines for fun. We had also made love 3 times, which was great.
The next day, she broke up with me because of “no deep connection” and “no shared interests”. I have deeply loved this girl for the entire relationship, and i have been here for her through everything
This isn’t the sweet girl i know and i love. She told me that she wants to find someone else whom the relationship comes “easy with” and not having to work at it everyday. But isn’t that what love is?
We were also planning on moving to georgia together and starting our lives together. Which makes this even more gut wrenching. Honestly I haven’t been doing even okay for the past week. I cant stop reaching out and asking why i wasn’t enough. Is there any way i can save this? Like the last time we got back together?
If anyone has advice on what i can do please help me out.
If anyone has more questions, i can elaborate
Posted Sep 2, 2025, 3:30 PM UTC