Child free stance, do you think i have a chance? please give me some help here, i am feeling very low

I am male 23 right now and i am in that sweet spot where your parents just start pushing for marriage and all, now today i had a call with them and the first thing they asked was that, what are your preference for a girl. first thing which came out of my mouth was, i am not going to have kids. I didnt expect such a amplified reaction, but they stood out of their sofas and felt so alienated, it felt like i just questioned their all life decisions. Now for me having kids is never going to change, and i did try to explain my father, but he is adamant about atleast one if not more, after hearing my all the rants, he did gave me the ticket to atleast decide at what age i can do, so that means i can do even later in life.

Now my question here is that, how tough it is for me to find a girl who can understand my arguments about child free and how income is very important and khuda is not going to give me anything, and how india is too much populated and we dont have enough income to give any quality of life, my parents dont have any business and my job is also on the edge of getting replaced by AI. when i said all this argument to my dad, he said i have enough money (he has some generational inheritance in few crores), i will give. idk what to do now, what are the chances that if i try to explain all this situation to a girl who is of my generation, who will understand all this, and agree with my stand. do you think bohra girls are atleast this much sensible that they will atleast listen to me or i will have a very very tough luck to find such girl.

please tell me such girls exist in bohra community, or atleast girls of my age and generation will understand the meaning of child free and all, i expected this reaction from my parents because they are old school, but i hope atleast today's generation even if bohra will understand.

i am really hoping to get some answers here.