am i supposed to be girly??

hi!!! for reference i am a teenager. i have been doing some type of sport all my life (14 whole years). i did soccer, basketball, softball, dance, bowling. and i’m also very active with my school stuff and i’ve been in a lot of clubs. i feel proud of what i’ve accomplished but i also feel like i should kind of be like other girls my age.

i don’t know how to curl or straighten my hair, or how to do makeup besides mascara and concealer. i don’t have super cute clothes but i also don’t have money to go on shopping sprees every week like my friends. i want to be more ‘girly’ cause my friends look super cute but im not sure how. my mom and my sister aren’t girly either so i don’t have any help from that.

does anyone have, like, tips or something? i want to be as cool as everyone else. i somewhat want people to look at me and think i’m pretty (but i think i like girls more than boys). anyway this seemed like a nice community so i thought i’d ask for help here.