ATE GIRL TAMA NA

So there’s this girl I know, currently in her 3rd year in law school. At first, we thought she was cool to hang around with. We were all just focused on studying cases, living our own peaceful lives, and honestly enjoying the grind of law school together.

But slowly, things felt… different. She always had something to say about other people—like lowkey throwing shade here and there, as if she had no issues of her own. It wasn’t the usual law school stress venting; it felt more like she thrived on gossip.

Then came the friendship dynamics. She’d use her BFF as a buffer, making sure she always had someone on her side. And with guys? Let’s just say the pattern was obvious—keeping them close, making them feel “needed,” but in the end, it was less about genuine connection and more about control. When things didn’t go her way, somehow the story always got flipped so that the guy was the one at fault.

Eventually, the group just drifted. We realized we were happier not being around that kind of energy. Law school is already heavy enough—you don’t need extra drama on top of codals and digests.

At this point, I just wish her well, but also… I hope she learns to mind her own business. Everyone’s fighting their own battles. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS