Are people really clueless??

I just saw a post on another sub. Aparently a pedo groomed a kid and then manipulated her to marry him when she grew up. Now it's been years. People were saying no one should help her because "she doesn't need any help since they've been married for years" and "if he was a pedo or toxic she would not marry him". They were saying her family should not be concerend for her cause she is in "a long term relationship and that means she is happy"! WTF???