(M4F) 42, est, Virginia, East Coast, Looking for the elusive and fun chat friend, maybe more

Obligatory disclosure of being married, not necessarily unhappy and not changing my situation for you or you....or you, or you or anyone else. So now that we got that out of the way let's get down to it.

I am looking for a fun connection, a woman who will hold my interest and will be interested in me as well, someone who doesnt always expect me to be the first one to reach out but will appreciate it when I do. Someone to talk about life, hobbies, music, movies, success and failure in life and maybe even a spicy chat if you so choose.

About me:

Obviously awesome, but you can judge for yourself. I'm 42 years old, 6'-1" tall, about 195 lbs currently, red beard, buzzed head and greenish blue eyes that I use a lot instead of words in person. I'm pretty serious at work so I'm pretty ridiculous when I'm off work, I enjoy working out, practicing archery, drawing, wood working, boating, swimming, going to the beach....generally any activity with a water feature, listening to music while contemplating life.

About you:

Not really known yet, hopefully somewhat smart, good sense of humor, not afraid to ask questions and can hold an intelligent or a straight up ridiculous conversation. Would prefer no younger than 30 and no older than 50, in somewhat decent shape and live at least a semi active lifestyle and enjoy the outdoors. Oh yeah....lacking that spark at home and longing for more.

If I sound like your type and you think we may be a good fit, reach out, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?