vb legends toxicity???

i know its expected for such a competitive game to have toxic players, but im really just so sick and tired of it. I decided to play ranked 2v2 and due to server issues(as always and NOT fully fixed yet..) my ping was 200+ usually in public my ping is less than 20. It was silver lobby and i was silver 3, and i got a duo that was really toxic. She kept bossing me around and putting me down almost the whole time, i tried to be reasonable with her but she just wasnt the nicest person.. For me, I play volleyball legends for fun.

1. It was laggy. I was trying my best. But she kept putting me down and blaming me for HER mistakes when SHE did a bad play..
2. Why cant we just play games for fun like how the people in the 2000s used to😿😿😿, now its no longer for fun anymore its all so competitive and toxic.

In the end, I left the game because I was feeling immense pressure by then and I just couldnt play as well as i could due to her constant complaints and toxicity.

Its a great game and it really brings about more love for volleyball globally. Just hope that the community could be less toxic.. thank you :)