Lincoln scene for sissy crossdressing

First I do not believe I am trans anything. I am a failed man who crossdresses in very private settings. on minimal ocassion Very closeted and must remain that way.. Looking to see if there are strong ladies here in Lincoln who have helped move a sissy want a be down the path. Must be very discrete and must have some place to do this. I am not able to use my place. Not married, but other difficulties make my place off limits. looking for women first because well to ask for a man's help I am sure I would get over flooded with responses. May consider a trans woman as long as she is the alpha type.