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M 28 [m4f] #uk #online #anywhere Nerdy British yearner seeks connection and to know what you are reading 🫵

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Hello! My name is Toby and I’m 28 years old from a small city in the South-West of England. I am habitually bad at talking about myself so this may come across as a mad ramble!

I’m looking for a woman/trans-woman/non-binary person to connect with and hopefully blossom into something beautiful. I am mainly searching for romantic connections. I also just love a good flirt! I really don’t have a ‘type’, so to speak, but physical attraction is an important part of a relationship to me, so I’d appreciate if you were able to show me what you look like! It doesn’t have to be straight away, but I would appreciate it soon after we begin talking.

I have attached some photos of me at the bottom of this post so you can see what I look like also! Physically I am 5’11” and quite a broad, big guy. I am currently on a weight-loss journey which is going swimmingly, but obviously if you are looking for a super toned, fit guy; I am not that lol. I have quite a few tattoos and desperately want some more in the near future. 3 are based on Amity Affliction songs, and others are just ones I fell in love with, or got a great deal on during Shark Week lol. I tend to think with my heart and trust my gut a lot, and that shows with my tattoos.

Overall, I am a humongous nerd and self-appointed yearner. I am an old-soul who loves writing letters, reading by candlelight, and staring wistfully out of rain-spattered windows. Forests, fog, rain, and crashing waves call to me deep in my soul. I feel everything very deeply and offer no apologies for that! I’m currently running a D&D campaign, and love an evening of sitting down with my fountain pens and a fresh page and vomiting my thoughts on the page. I would be happy to share this with you! I also do (bad) illustrations for my book! I sometimes feel constantly lost in a daydream and my mind is constantly in other worlds, or worlds of my creation.

I read a hell of a lot after neglecting literature for many years. I am usually engrossed in a book or two and would gratefully accept any burning recommendations you may have. I am obsessed with horror, sci-fi, fantasy, and good old literary fiction. I am currently reading East of Eden by John Steinbeck and thoroughly enjoying it!

I also play the odd video game or two and am currently playing Dead by Daylight and thinking of jumping into No Man’s Sky again. I love chill games where I can let my mind relax. I am happy to give most things a try though. I would be happy to switch over to something like Discord or Instagram if you are amenable to that. Discord has the distinct advantage of not having your life story on it so that may be preferred.

I’m also a very keen watcher of films! Please let me know your letterboxd top 4. I also paint warhammer from time to time, if the mood takes me. I’d be happy to show you some recent work I have done.

This is becoming quite rambly now so I will finish by saying I am happy with any age between 22-40. I’m also left wing politically, and do not think I would get on with right-wingers of any shape and size. If you think I sound interesting then please don’t hesitate to get in touch.

Here’s me: https://imgur.com/a/GqfpbBR

Posted Sep 3, 2025, 4:59 PM UTC · locked

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