Any marrieds or formerly marrieds who were a virgin on their wedding night?

I’m a lurker, and a first time poster. I’m also from a conservative Christian background.

I'm curious if you were a virgin on your wedding night? Do you wish you would have had sex before marriage? Would you have still married them?

I feel like not knowing if you are sexually compatible and being so young and horny is making for a lot of very sexually frustrated people. I wish the church had a better approach to reducing this fear or gap in dialogue. I have felt disheartened at the lack of care in this regard.

If you feel uncertain about sharing your reply in the sub, you can message directly too. I understand it can be a sensitive topic.