Where to next?

I was born and raised in the NYC area over 20 years. Never ever liked it. Dirty, crazy, congested, graffiti, in a lot of places, aggressive drivers I JUST did not like it. I do not like the vibe or set up. I like being able to park and have a car and I cant explain it. I ended up moving to Florida. It was soso eh. I lasted about 4 years. I really was not a fan. I do not really care about beaches or super tropical places. Definitely not into beaches. I do not know where I want to move next. I know I like big cities with lots of opportunities. I just do not know where I even may like.