What to use to clean Tesla

Hi I got a new MY and wondering what are the best items to clean the car. For exterior, I read ONR (Optimum No Rinse) is good. It works for windows and seats too? Has it been tested like that by anyone? For windows, I read Stoner's Invisible Glass is good. For seats ( I have white seats ventilated seats if that matters), I read Dr Bronner's Castile Soap is good. But I also read that its not good to put natural oils on Tesla seats. What is the general recommendation?

How does waxing work and what brand is recommended? Do you apply this after a car wash?

Thanks!