Does anyone want/need both?

I just got out of a pretty toxic relationship. But I realised from it that I’m not into 24/7 bdsm and only in the bedroom, which is good to know ig. My actual question is if anyone here also needs a romantic AND bdsm relationship? For me it’s something intimate and sacred that I don’t just wanna share with anyone, but I feel like most ppl are just interested in a dom/sub relationship w/o romantic ties.