frustrated

my ex we was primarily anal only and i was totally sexually satisfied with her long story short i caught her sleeping with her son so she had to go fast forward to now my current wife she has a virgin ass before we met yea well it’s been at least five years since i’ve had my dick in her ass and frankly i miss it i bring it up to her every now and then she she says she is all for it but when it comes to it it’s always no and damn it i miss anal !!