I'm an plus-size sub - will I be alright?
Hi all!
First, apologies for the throwaway; I rarely use Reddit as it is and even if I did, I don't think I'd want to be this vulnerable on my main account.
Some background: I am female, bisexual, and super into the bondage part of BDSM. I would really love to be tied up and have been jonesing to for a while, but I am also overweight and am worried that - should I actually try and explore my fetish/kink - that I will be rejected for this within the greater community. Despite finding other people of my size attractive and like, tie-upable, I struggle a lot with finding that beauty within myself.
Do people go for fat subs? If so, where could I go to meet them? I'd really just like to be comfortable and taken care of.
Posted Sep 3, 2025, 6:22 PM UTC