[M4F] 40 | UK/Online | Public Size Database and Does Size Matter? "So yes, when it comes to penises, size – and shape – matters when it comes to natural selection!" - Do you agree? - Do you think there should be a verified public size database for women to look up?

I’m curious to hear from both men and women on this — Size matters but just how much does it matter to you personally?

But preference is to hear from women.

Let’s be honest — we’ve all heard “size doesn’t matter”, but more and more women seem to be flipping that on its head. I want to hear your thoughts, because when it comes to this topic, your opinion matters a hell of a lot more than mine or any other guy’s.

• When did you realise size does matter to you?
• What’s your ideal size (length & girth)?
• What’s too small for you and why?
• Do you think size affects your ability to orgasm deeply (e.g., A-spot)?
• Why do you think some women still say "size doesn't matter"?

Public Size Database
We live in a world where men often see women’s “vital stats” at a glance. Should women have the same option before the bedroom?

Would a verified public size database (not self-reported!) be fair or too far?

Fun fact (or disturbing, depending on your view):
Studies suggest men who crave flashy sports cars often have below-average size.
Also, from an evolutionary standpoint, penis size and shape do matter. Research (Gallup et al., 2003) shows the human penis evolved to displace rival sperm more effectively — especially with longer length and a pronounced coronal ridge.

As well as being larger and wider than other primate penises, the human penis has the unique shape of a shaft with a ridge leading to a wider tip, known as the coronal ridge. This is more pronounced than in other species. All of these elements are important in terms of semen displacement: the coronal ridge removes semen by ‘scooping it out’ as it passes over the tip, is trapped behind the ridge and pulled out during intercourse. Recent research shows that a penis with a coronal ridge will displace 91% of semen, while one without will displace only 35% (Gallup et al. 2003). Thrusting during sex creates a vacuum that aids this process, as the width of the shaft provides a plug in the vagina. In Gallup’s experiment, the same penis removed 90% of semen when fully inserted and only 39% when inserted three quarters of the way. Therefore, the length of the shaft simply improves reach and maximizes the amount of semen that can be removed.

Do you agree?

Let’s have an honest, respectful chat.

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