Aitah if I don't tell my new suite mate that I'm gay?
I (37m) am going back to college and I will be staying on campus. I will be in my room alone but I will be sharing a connected bathroom with my suite mate (24m). I have been out for years but I never made it my entire identity. I am a masculine gay man so most people don't assume that I am gay and what few feminine things I have/do most choch it up to me being the youngest of 4, raised by a single mother, and being the only boy. I don't really plan on having anyone around but I'm also not apposed to it but I also don't want a lot of drama. We also have a few classes together and will probably be studying with each other.
So would I be the asshole for not saying anything about it to him?
Posted Sep 3, 2025, 6:22 PM UTC
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