M4F Looking for something genuine and long term

M4F

I don't need to assume an unreal character, you don't either. Our thoughts and feelings are deep and dark enough to be shared, contested and integrated if we vibe. Why should we stick to the conventional darkness of the sexual perversion in this sub. It's not fulfilling. We could build a universe of dopamine rush by sharing our desires, keeping our personal life anonymous to each other.

I would be non-judgemental to your kinks as long as you are to mine. We might not vibe, in which case we can graciously say goodbye. But if we vibe it opens up a sexual high for both of us.

I like to know you deeply. Your mistakes, your successes. In this space we have a democratic interaction, with clear and vivid equality.

Although I am open to most kinks, I have certain limits. I am not into family rships, violence and gore. Anything that compromises agency, yours or mine, is a no to me. I am also not into perversions. I am straight guy who enjoys deep connection and a slow progression to passionate love making and rough sex