Kindergarten

My 5 year old started kindergarten he’s diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder and ADHD. It’s only been a week and 2 days and I’ve been getting calls every day got him put on medications they are pressing me to put him in TK but it’s just not logical for me I don’t have a way to get him across town to a different school. I’ve been asking for AEA to get involved and possibly come up with an IEP and get him a para to help but they keep pushing it aside.. I need advice I’m stuck and feel like I’m not doing the right thing for my child..