[M4F] Female pornstar relationships

Hello fellow DPPers! Today, I'm seeking a more unconventional relationship. A relationship between an active (or retired) female pornstar and your average guy. Someone who's never done porn, no interest in it. Has probably viewed it, but just an average guy with a job, home, etc.

So how would this pair come together? In what world would they cross paths?

Here's a few different ideas, also very open to your own!

Volunteering- People do it for different reasons, some willingly, some because they have to. Open to you having to do it (maybe a misdemeanor type of charge you get assigned community service for) and my character doing it for work or school. Or you simply like to give back! In any event, it's a way for us to meet, maybe bond over doing something good for the community. It could be something simple like a beach clean up, a renovation project or community out reach. If you're the sucker type (like me), it could be an animal shelter that needs people to help. But it'll serve as a reason for us to interact, get to know one another and perhaps decide if we wanted to get a coffee or just chat. You'd be pretty dressed down, almost like an incognito mode. Sunglasses, maybe a baggy hoodie, anything to just blend in. I wouldn't know who you are straight away which adds to the intrigue. From there, it'll come into focus. You look familiar. Do I say I recognize?

Coffee Shop- We both could be patrons or I could be working there. Either way, just a simple meet cute. Both going roughly the same time a few days a week, making eyes, eventually having the courage to approach. Also, doesn't have to be a coffee shop. It could be a dog park, mall, or anywhere else we could potentially run into each other.

Hinge- or bumble, preferably not tinder. I swipe on your profile, thinking maybe it's a fake profile since, well, what would you be doing on a dating site? But I swipe anyway, and to my surprise, I get a match. Then a message. Is it really you? Or am I being catfished? (Hint, it's really you!).

In any scenario, I want to keep it light and on the romantic side. Your character, despite your beauty and doing porn, shockingly does not fare well in the dating world. Whether it's attracting the wrong type, preconceptions about you or just your own clumsy approach to marry your porn and real world, it's proven to be challenging for you. I'd love to explore this divide, how two very different people from different worlds navigate a dating life. I'm not looking for a cuckold vibe, it's not going to be mean or disrespectful within the relationship. We might catch strays from the opposite sides, but not from each other.

I'm looking for more long term with build up over a quickie. Open to discord as well. I write in first person but you're welcome to write in whichever perspective that suits you. Details are important but we don't have to exchange novels, either.