Why is no one calling out Demola or defending Katisha in that situation?

I honestly don’t get why everyone on here is acting like Demola was the one that got away for Katisha. Yes, we know Javen wasn’t the right guy, but why is everyone so adamant that Demola automatically was?

Katisha literally said she felt uncomfortable with how over-the-top he was. The constant love-bombing, saying everything a woman would want to hear, the grand declarations… to a woman he barely knows and has never seen..lol. Sorry but that’s not romance, that’s performative. Any sane person would get red flag vibes from that. If a guy came on that strong, that fast, me and my friends all agreed that we would all probably decide the same as katisha. You’d be pulling back too. It screams strategy- like he’s trying to lock in his spot for clout rather than actually get to know her.

At least Javen was laid-back. He didn’t shove “I love you” down her throat, and he gave her space to make a decision. Even if he turned out to be the biggest Fboy, it still felt more natural than Demola’s “perfect nice guy” act. And let’s be real — nice guys don’t need to announce their niceness 24/7. When it’s genuine, it speaks for itself.

So yeah, maybe Katisha didn’t pick the right guy in the end, but let’s stop pretending Demola was automatically Prince Charming. We don’t know if their journey would have been all sunshine and roses either.

I can’t believe no one on Reddit is seeing it this way?? Like seriously? Are you guys just so easily fooled. This is why you can’t take online seriously because real life opinions is so much more different.

One thing I will say that katisha did wrong though was promise Demola her decision wouldn’t change -but then again its not like it was that easy for her. Given how harsh everyone has been on her for going with her instincts, no wonder why she might’ve decided to go against her attraction at one point