Guy I’m seeing had sex with a man in his past
I really could see a future with this man. He is so loving, sweet, etc. He is in his 30s but said when he was 19 he had sex with a man and got paid for it. I asked why they paid him but he didn’t want to talk about it. He also had thing with a man for a little bit (age 19) where he said the most they did was the dude gave him head and they kinda dated for a couple weeks. I kinda think they did more but doesn’t want to admit it bc he feels shame. He said he is not bi and regrets his past he was just young and dumb and never did anything else with a man after that.
I don’t want to judge and I know god forgives, but it almost feels like a dealbreaker. I feel I look at him differently and I feel bad. We shouldn’t be defined by our pasts but idk why I feel weird about it. Straight Ladies - could you be with a man who you know had sex with a man in his past.
Posted Sep 3, 2025, 6:25 PM UTC