Advice for SP

Hello! I'm looking for advice on subliminals/general manifesting for a certain sp. I'm sorry for the long passage explaining my situation.

I met this sp this spring and we agreed we were not going to pursue anything at the moment due to our respective summer internships taking us to different places across the country, but would try dating in the fall when we returned to school. We spoke regularly everyday over the summer, both before and after work for us. But then a few weeks before the fall semester, he said that an offhanded joke I made had upset him (even he acknowledged he knew it was a stupid thing to be upset about) and he was no longer interested in pursuing anything with me in the fall, because he was hurt and worried he would resent me.

It honestly really upset me, because I did care for him, and he admitted he was also upset about it too and also truly cared, and wasn't angry with me. I've been using subliminals this summer such as Violet Daze, High Frequency Guru and Nocturnum with some success.

I was wondering if anyone had any advice on perhaps having success with this sp.

This situation has gone on for a long time and I honestly don't think I have the mental bandwidth for several months of consistency after all of this hurt I have felt. I was thinking of giving myself until the end of September to try and shift things. Any advice on fast sp success?